Gregory
Gene Henry

A Friend of the Phonograph
In Memory of Greg Henry, August
26, 2024
By Doug Boilesen, September 15,
2024 (with excerpts from Greg's obituary, the Lincoln Journal Star,
September 15, 2024).
Greg Henry was born in Lincoln, Nebraska
on September 4, 1950 to Ruth Eileen Henry (ne'e Lane) and Herbert Gene
Henry.
Greg, Ruth and Herb on their front porch where Greg first lived in Lincoln, NE.
The first of four siblings, Greg was a serious student but he also enjoyed participating in youth groups and other activities. He earned
his Eagle Scout badge, was actively involved in the Youth Fellowship
at St. Paul United Methodist Church and sang tenor in the prestigious
Lincoln Boys Choir.
Greg was my childhood friend from the
time of my second birthday party in 1952 until 2024. Our parents were good friends and "good Methodists," which meant we saw each other on many, many Sundays. Our families also occasionally got together on Sunday afternoons for homemade ice cream (using respective family recipes). When we went to the Henry's, as soon as I entered their house I can still hear Herb saying to me "Greg's downstairs." I'd go downstairs and into the room with the floor drain where the melted ice flowed, and there was Greg turning the crank of the ice cream maker (something that takes 45 minutes or more to complete). I'm going to guess over the years that Greg did alot more cranking of ice cream than I did.

Greg and Ann making homemade ice cream, 1955.
Greg and I both attended Southeast High School and the University of Nebraska-Lincoln where
he earned a B.S. with distinction in Mathematics and Physics and was
a member of Phi Beta Kappa and Triangle Fraternity. Greg then went
to the University of Chicago to earn a PhD in Physics, and worked at Fermilab, America's renowned particle physics laboratory.
Greg's final move in 1979 took him to Arlington, Viriginia
to be an Operations Research Analyst at the U.S. Office of Management
and Budget in Washington, D.C. until his retirement in 2011.
Greg enjoyed all types of music. He
played trombone with marching bands at Southeast and Lincoln East
high schools. He created a light show with
our mutual friend Larry Stepp for a local production of the Who's rock opera Tommy which I know was one of his undergraduate highlights. He took organ lessons as
a later-life hobby continuing his life-long involvement with music.
Living and working in Washington, D.C. for most of his life kept him from attending "Phonograph
Birthday" parties held in Nebraska, California, and Colorado, however, Greg did contribute to Friends of
the Phonograph (FOTP) on-line lists such as "Favorite Record Album Covers," and
"Top 10 Movies."

Santanya's "Abraxis",
Greg's favorite album cover.
For the FOTP Favorite
Movies list, Greg limited
himself to 20; he said he couldn't rank them (he was the only one who got away with this) so his movie
selections are listed as "UR" (Unranked). (Note: he never updated this list so I'm sure there would have been a few changes). He also submitted
movie titles to go into the "Phonographs in the Movies"
gallery which displays movies having a phonograph connection.
Greg never documented an early phonograph
memory for FOTP's "Memories of the Phonograph"
gallery, but he grew up with a phonograph in the home and a record
player in his room and he owned many LPs. I remember Greg saying that he really liked The Band's first
album, circa 1970, and I listened to it with him in his room -- but he had many others that were favorites through the years.

"The Band" (The
Brown Album) 1969 - it's an album I can picture Greg playing.
One of our phone calls was a reminder that
Greg still considered recorded sound an important part of his home entertainment system and he mentioned that he had been thinking about getting new speakers.
But he then clarified that he was going to repair rather than upgrade his speakers and the reasoning for that decision then morphed
into an ad hoc science seminar related to recorded sound, the bit rate of
digital recordings and the specifications of his own system. Greg's
conclusion: Fixing his speakers
would still meet the specs that he needed to enjoy digital recordings
-- QED no new speakers were required. It was a typical Greg phone conversation which often
included fact-checking and back of the envelope calculations.
Thinking and reading about current affairs,
the environment, physics, political matters, pro-democracy causes, books, periodicals
and writing are where Greg spent most of his time in retirement. He watched and
recorded many programs and news broadcasts which always included the
local news. In his retirement Greg had hoped to develop and promote
some forums where ordinary citizens would be invited to come and discuss
various topics, hear experts, ask questions, review and even recommend
policy proposals. Greg's vision
for those public forums unfortunately never materialized.
I wish Greg was still here to write
his own Memory of the Phonograph page. Instead, his entry into
the "In
Memory of Friends of the Phonograph" written by me means that he's
no longer available to take my calls...and so much more.
I will remember Greg for many things,
but especially for being a life-long friend, a man of integrity and
a thinker with a unique sense of humor.
The following photos include a few shared memories with Greg, and Greg with his family.

Greg on the far left for
my second birthday party with me between the two girls (Marsha on
my left, Bonnie to my right) on the front steps of our apartment at
1301 "H" Street, Lincoln, NE , May 1952.

Mothers with their children
(Greg with Ruth Henry on far left) May 1952.
Greg and I first spent time together
on Sunday mornings in St. Paul Methodist's nursery when we were infants
and pre-schoolers. That relationship would continue through Sunday
School and Methodist Youth Fellowship. In that context Mary McKelvey Fagler (below) was also a life-long friendship which was renewed whenever Greg visited Lincoln.

Halloween Party at 1301
"H" Street, (Greg front row far right. Doug is in back row
far left, Mary Francis BR third from left, FR second from left Lyle, 1953).

Larry Stepp on far left (during college,
he was Greg's light show collaborator), Greg 2nd from left, and Bobby Jenkins on the other side of Greg, at my Birthday Party in 1961. At our 50th High School Reunion in 2018 Greg, Larry, Bobby and myself had brunch together in Lincoln.

L-R Greg, Ann, Blaine, Mitch in their Monterey Drive home's backyard in December 1961. Greg grew up in this house, always felt like it was home, and was upset (to the degree that Greg was ever upset) when his parents decided to sell the house many years after he had moved to Washington, D.C. He made sure he visited his parents and that home before they moved.

Lincoln East High School
Graduation Picture, Class of 1968

College Graduation Celebration party
with Greg, Mary, Lyle and Doug, 1972 - See Halloween
party 1953 for this same four-some.

Doug and Sharon visited
Washington, D.C. and Greg in Arlington, VA in 1989.
On my first visit to Greg's
in the early 1980's after he moved to Arlington I asked him where
he kept his toaster since I didn't see one in the kitchen. Greg responded
that he didn't have a toaster. As a "toast" person I was
a bit surprised and offered to buy one. He declined by saying he didn't
need one.
A few years later I was visiting Greg and asked him if he had a place for a toaster yet. Greg said he didn't have a toaster but did have Cinnabons. I had never heard of Cinnabons and they were delicious. After
eating a Cinnabon my "where do you keep your toaster" question
logically should have stopped since Cinnabons were a nice alternative
to toast.
But my question periodically continued to be asked over the years even though Greg was consistent that he didn't have a toaster, didn't want a toaster, and never would get a toaster. On one of our last calls (after some thirty-five years of Greg fielding the question and answering "No"), I asked if he had found a place for a toaster yet and Greg said "No"...but this time added "what is it with you
and toast?" I paused, and then said "I don't know what you're talking about." After a "Greg pause," there was Greg's expanded "OhhhhKay" which meant it was time for another topic.
I'll miss not asking Greg about his toaster.

Doug and Sharon's visit to Greg's new
Arlington home in 2000 with custom bookcases throughout his living
room for his many books. Greg designed that house and watched it being built, brick by brick. I'm not sure how many knew that he had built an elevator shaft in the house for the possibility that the degeneration of his eyes would continue to the point that he would then install the elevator. Fortunately, it was never needed and that shaft remained a storage area for twenty-four years.

Greg's OMB Retirement cake and speech, 2011.


Greg's parents Herb and Ruth were at Greg's OMB Retirement and they couldn't have been prouder about their oldest son and his distinguished career.

Greg in 2017 (sixty-five
years later) on the steps of 1301 "H" Street, Lincoln,
NE which became Billy's Restaurant & Bar in 1986 (named after three-time Presidential nominee William Jennings Bryan who lived in Lincoln during those three campaigns). My parents,
Axel and Betty Boilesen, and I lived in one of two apartments on the
first floor until 1955. 1301 "H" Street is historically
known as the Noble-Dawes home. Built as a duplex in 1885 for Henry
E. Noble, the house was sold in 1891 to Charles G. Dawes and his wife.
Dawes was the 30th Vice President of the United States from 1925 to
1929 under Calvin Coolidge.
Parenthetically, Greg and I talked a lot
about politics over the years and I believe the Dawes/Bryan house was the symbolic beginning and connection for all of our later discussions.
Greg, as pictured in
his obituary notice, August 26, 2024, or
"Gregory" as I'd greet him (often with an "Ahoy"), after he
answered the phone, which was then followed by Greg recognizing
me with a ritualistic pause and a distinct "Douglas."
Our calls were never short and sometimes
ended abruptly because it was time for the news (I called this "Greg's Rule: It's Eastern Time for the News." But long or short, the call always ended for me, not with good-bye, but with a "That
is all!" -- which is now too true.
That is all!
AVE ATQUE VALE

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